Things that I do doesn't necessarily mean the other party would be interested. Maybe it's too boring. Maybe it's just not their cup of tea. It's too tough. Compromise? How to compromise if one is too extreme and the other is just not as. They try to slot you in their own activities but how about my own interest?
So, just let the other party do whatever they want to do and I just do whatever I want to do. This ain't going too well.